Deleted member 7448
Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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One of the things I find most disturbing about most users who post here, is that they want marriage. I know, "love", validation etc..
But I think all of them are mentally stuck at the image of a fresh marriage, or even a fresh relationship. Sex a couple of times a week, the lust (so-called love) and happiness around each other hasn't faded etc...
But in 99% of all relationships (according to my years of browsing the internet, eavesdropping and watching movies), people seem to be miserable. Especially once the lovey-dovey phase is over, which is pretty soon after they're married. Sex is rare, like twice a month. Sex becomes a special occasion, the husband has to simp extra hard for it, he has hundreds of chores and tasks etc...
For those of you who claim you want to be married, how do you see this hypothetical marriage 5 years in? (disregarding the likelihood of you getting married).
But I think all of them are mentally stuck at the image of a fresh marriage, or even a fresh relationship. Sex a couple of times a week, the lust (so-called love) and happiness around each other hasn't faded etc...
But in 99% of all relationships (according to my years of browsing the internet, eavesdropping and watching movies), people seem to be miserable. Especially once the lovey-dovey phase is over, which is pretty soon after they're married. Sex is rare, like twice a month. Sex becomes a special occasion, the husband has to simp extra hard for it, he has hundreds of chores and tasks etc...
For those of you who claim you want to be married, how do you see this hypothetical marriage 5 years in? (disregarding the likelihood of you getting married).