5 years into a marriage

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One of the things I find most disturbing about most users who post here, is that they want marriage. I know, "love", validation etc..

But I think all of them are mentally stuck at the image of a fresh marriage, or even a fresh relationship. Sex a couple of times a week, the lust (so-called love) and happiness around each other hasn't faded etc...

But in 99% of all relationships (according to my years of browsing the internet, eavesdropping and watching movies), people seem to be miserable. Especially once the lovey-dovey phase is over, which is pretty soon after they're married. Sex is rare, like twice a month. Sex becomes a special occasion, the husband has to simp extra hard for it, he has hundreds of chores and tasks etc...

For those of you who claim you want to be married, how do you see this hypothetical marriage 5 years in? (disregarding the likelihood of you getting married).
 
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i want gf, but i wouldnt wanna get married not in 2018 when you can be cucked so easily fuck that shit.
 
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Marriage is a big lie, i agree , that's why even chads don't get married.
 
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it's true, but everyone hopes to stretch out their honeymoon phase forever, that they're special, even I do, I guess a select few people do make it
 
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Adoring Fan said:
Marriage is a big lie, i agree , that's why even chads don't get married.
 
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Without a doubt I would be much more miserable than I am now. I come back earlier from my job, opened a beer and after I while I decided fuck it and ordered pizza. Now I'm gonna eat some pizza watching old x-files and after that play some Devil May Cry. Honestly, it's much better than some 4/10 foid nagging me that we should eat salad, and that I should do 99 chores around the home. Fuck it
 
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Marriage will be totally useless as there is marital rape charge (if I'm not mistaken)
 
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Marriage has 0 benefits for men. It is akin to giving a foid a big red button capable of ending your life. Nothing more. And they will often press that button
 
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anon1822 said:
One of the things I find most disturbing about most users who post here, is that they want marriage. I know, "love", validation etc..

But I think all of them are mentally stuck at the image of a fresh marriage, or even a fresh relationship. Sex a couple of times a week, the lust (so-called love) and happiness around each other hasn't faded etc...

But in 99% of all relationships (according to my years of browsing the internet, eavesdropping and watching movies), people seem to be miserable. Especially once the lovey-dovey phase is over, which is pretty soon after they're married. Sex is rare, like twice a month. Sex becomes a special occasion, the husband has to simp extra hard for it, he has hundreds of chores and tasks etc...

For those of you who claim you want to be married, how do you see this hypothetical marriage 5 years in? (disregarding the likelihood of you getting married).
Just buy poisenous envelopes theory.
 
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anon1822 said:
One of the things I find most disturbing about most users who post here, is that they want marriage. I know, "love", validation etc..

But I think all of them are mentally stuck at the image of a fresh marriage, or even a fresh relationship. Sex a couple of times a week, the lust (so-called love) and happiness around each other hasn't faded etc...

But in 99% of all relationships (according to my years of browsing the internet, eavesdropping and watching movies), people seem to be miserable. Especially once the lovey-dovey phase is over, which is pretty soon after they're married. Sex is rare, like twice a month. Sex becomes a special occasion, the husband has to simp extra hard for it, he has hundreds of chores and tasks etc...

For those of you who claim you want to be married, how do you see this hypothetical marriage 5 years in? (disregarding the likelihood of you getting married).

I don't think so. Frequency of sex goes down a lot, but its not as much as you say it is. It goes from like sex every day or multiple times a day to 2-3 times a week.
 
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EthnicelNL said:
Just buy poisenous envelopes theory.
Georgecels have it figured out.
 
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Least back in the day when the government wasn't fucking men in the ass and giving women our balls we didn't have to cater to whatever stupid shit that goes through their heads.

Now best you get is a used up roastie that hates you so you can buy her bills and post on dead bedrooms while she gets pumped and dumped by older thirsty tyrones.