She's calling men disillusioned, its so weird how women can be so confident when they're completely in the wrong. Of course men won't attend these events because they already know that they'll be rejected by these women. In these environments 1) women expect men to impress them 2) women expect men to do all the hard work and 3) women still expect Chad to show up.
No guy is going to go there willingly to be berated, rejected and made to feel small, by middle aged women who expect prince Billionaire to show up and come pick them up in a white horse, to ride together towards the sunset. The fuck?