Experiment 2018, the year of approaching femoids during the day (daygame)

[TheLegendofBentCock]

What is approaching?

For me, it's about putting femoids on the spot.
Making them SQUIRM.
Well, not really. But it seems to be the effect I have on them anyway, so why should I apologise to them if my mere presence as a red blooded male makes them uncomfortable?
I've never had female interaction throughout my whole life.
Never sat down with one as a friend, never conversed with one, never had to work with one, never had any dealings at all with one.
I am coming from a place of utter inexperience.

Okay, so I've been with a few prostitutes since I was 25 in 2015, that was because I didn't want to never experience the delights of a female body. I am primarily motivated by sex and having a female physically in front of me to molest to my heart's content.
My goal with approaching is to embrace the awkwardness. Since my teens I have been very sensitive to awkwardness and how OTHER PEOPLE feel. Which is something I've got to snap out of if I want to be competitive in this cut throat society.

Worrying if the femoid is scared, for instance. They seem to scare easily if anyone does anything even slightly out of the norm.
Well I am too sensitive to their feelings and approaching is my way out of that.
Don't get me wrong, sometimes I go out and just don't feel up to approaching.
I am not at Uninstall's level, that is something I aspire to though.

What will follow, are copy and paste posts from my thread at the pickup forum I was banned from.

3/6/18

Well, since the end of March I was doing cold approaches.

I only count successful approaches, which are approach the target, deploy the compliment, acknowledge the compliment as received and appreciated.

I do not count failed approaches such as being blanked or just someone quickly saying "I've got a boyfriend".

That does not count.

In fact, recently I've only been counting approaches that have resulted in a conversation where I can tell they are genuinely impressed.

I am on 44 now since March 28th.

Once I've made six more I will go with a day gaming coach to help push the boundaries and give me some tips.

I'll have to go up to London to do that but it will be worth it to get tuition from a pro.

7/6/18

Absolutely killed it today-smashed my previous record of 11 approaches in one day and made it to 14.

And I think it was the nicest "rejections" I've had, on a consistant basis, I didn't have one awkward/weird one either.


I had little anxiety, I've got a feeling that my energy is changing.

I wasn't feeling nervous like "I shouldn't be doing this" when I was approaching chicks.

I even stopped a chick on her phone and she was okay about it!

I was so relaxed, loving it, dunno why.

There were a few that I let slip due to them being with guys or not sure of the age but on the whole I was really impressed with myself.

There were very few awkward feeling ones.

Suffix to say, I was bossing it.

Riding the high.

My goal at this point is to become an "approach machine".

I don't want to go back to being in my head at all, it's the nasty rejections that do that to me.

I remember taking hours just to do 2-3 approaches a couple of months ago.

14 approaches in one day, BEAST!

The chicks were all so nice and it wasn't even that sunny, a little bit but overcast, I dunno, I'll put it down to my energy changing for the better.

My goal was actually 2 or 3 approaches but it was one of my best days ever!

9/6/18

Well I went out today (Saturday) with a goal to do a few approaches, nothing major.

Unfortunately I was so inside my head that I couldn't seem to do it. I was having the old paranoid thoughts and not being in the moment. Thinking everyone was watching, thinking the targets are going to react badly, etc.

I think the main thing was that I was tired from working 5 nine hour shifts on a building site which is my job at the moment.

But I was also paranoid that after my approach spree on Thursday, I might get noticed or approach the same targets again and use up their good will.

I went to the cemetery and had a nap under an old oak tree which was nice and helped my state, but by that time I was too far down the rabbit hole.

I looked at some headstones and reminded myself that I will be dead one day but it still wasn't working!

I felt like I had a zipper on my mouth and it was firmly zipped shut. I half heartedly pursued a few chicks but didn't approach them.

I even hesitated to ask a supermarket worker if they had something. I was back to my old ways of hovering around and not approaching.

I couldn't even bring myself to do self amusement or say hi. I think I was out for 3 hours and only spoke twice to people.

Indeed I was walking around with my hood up and shades on.

I must have let 10 reasonably pretty chicks pass me by, including 2 or 3 quite stunning ones. In fact I saw more chicks today when I felt unable to approach than I normally see out!

So I could have attempted to approach, but I figured I would let myself see what it was like to be my old self again.

And that confirmed that I sure as hell know I don't want to go back!

My energy and mojo felt like it had disappeared, but I am fairly sure it was because I was tired.

I feel like if I got a couple of rejections I would have learnt something and made some effort but just having nothing doesn't feel great at all.

Tomorrow is a new day.

 

[42cel_Resurrected]

Please don't make a newline after every sentence, it's cancerous to read.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

22/6/18

Friday today and I let a hot chick go in the supermarket.

It was my own town, not the bigger town nearby, I was paranoid that I might have approached her before so I left rather than lingered in the stalker like way I do sometimes when I try to psych myself up to approach.

I wasn't specifically out for cold approaching, just going about my quick shop after work.

I work in an ultra macho environment (construction site) so it doesn't do much for my more "delicate" social skills that you need for talking to women.

Plus I was looking like iron man togged up in all my bike gear and just felt too conspicuous to approach in case it turned awkward.

I will go out tomorrow and sunday to try and force some approaches but I've not been feeling it this last couple weeks.

Really has felt like I'm forcing myself to do something I don't want to do and it feels so unnatural.

I didn't feel up to dealing with the awkwardness on a Friday night.

25/6/18

Well I pat myself on the back today because I forced out a super awkward approach.

I was in Aldi, which is a small shop.

I spotted this hot chick walk in.

She had a brand new Ford Ranger pickup so based on that I assumed she was with somebody quite successful as it's not the kind of car a single woman would own.

I couldn't approach her in the shop, I just couldn't do it in such a small shop where everyone could hear, even though I did one on Sunday in there.

So instead of hanging around, I went and did my shopping, then I observed that she had finished her's, I was at the till and I just got out as she was waiting to put her trolley back after loading the shopping it into her truck.

I did my usual line, told her she looked incredible and that I wouldn't mind getting to know her.

I felt super awkward togged up in all my biking gear and absolutely forced myself to do it.

She looked worried, hesitated for a couple seconds, then said "I'm taken" and then I was like "no problem".

I found this one extra awkward and embarrassing probably because I was hot and flustered in my biking gear, quite stiff and to top it all off I'd just got off working from a macho environment and had no female socialisation all day, so I get extra bonus points for making that approach.

I KNOW I need to go through this in order to get good with women, especially out of state and dressed in conspicuous clothing, but I don't always feel up to it.

So I deserve extra bonus points for this cringe worthy approach that I made this evening.

02/7/18

Approached 7 in a town I don't normally day game in.

I was there for a job interview but felt like I might as well make a day of it and fit some gaming in.

I motorcycled there and it was baking hot so I hid my helmet and trousers in the parking lot but kept my jacket and rucksack with me which made walking around a bit more cumbersome not to mention uncomfortably hot.

But given the circumstances I was proud of the approaching I did.

If the circumstances were different like if I had a car and drove there I think I would have probably gone all out and made 15+ approaches because it was a bigger town than the town I normally day game in.

I really feel like day gaming in a different town does a lot to get you out of your head because when I go to my local town I get paranoid and think that every chick who sees me is thinking "Uh oh, here comes the pick up guy".

And I'm also paranoid of re approaching chicks that I've approached before, but day gaming in a different town really takes the pressure off a lot.

My highlight was a Latvian chick who was really friendly and appreciative of the effort I made, although she did have a boyfriend but shook my hand and asked me some questions back. This one was also in a shop so extra points for that.

I also approached a chick who was with her mum but I didn't realise she was with her mum. I've done a few like that and the mums instead of being fierce like you might expect are actually much more friendly about it, they just make their excuses and drag them off.

Then a stunner walked by which was at the point where I'd already made the 5 approaches I was going to make but I thought "I'm not letting her go" so I approached her, she said she had a boyfriend and walked off.

But then I can't be sure but I think I saw her talking to someone outside a nail salon, just in the doorway, by pure coincidence I was walking past and I'm sure they must have been talking about me approaching her.

I over heard a part of their conversation, something like "Oh, he was really really cute" or something along those sorts of lines. And I was dressed in my smart clothes so it is not a stretch to think she might have thought that.

I was caught off guard because I didn't expect to see her again,, in fact I thought she walked the opposite way, so I don't know if it was actually her or not, but it was a tall blonde chick that was eye catching, but I didn't want to notice too much or it would have been awkward if she saw me just as she was chatting with someone about her encounter.

But the interaction with the stunner was quite short and she didn't seem particularly appreciative at the time. Maybe she suffered regret and that was why she was talking to the nail technician about it?

Another thing, before I approached the stunner I did do something slightly "chodish" for lack of a better word. There was this guy behind her, shorter than her and for some reason I asked him "Is she with you". I'm so embarrassed at the thought of stepping on another guy's toes, on his achievement, I guess I can relate to the struggle on a bro level much more. Needless to say, the short guy wasn't with her anyway.

So yeah, all in all, a good day. The most approaches I've made in a session in a long time.

So if anyone is having trouble getting out of their head, I recommend approaching in a different town for awhile.

03/7/18

Originally Posted by daleinthedark
Autopsy scrubs ftw

Chicks just love that creepy pathologist look, complete with face splatter guard.

Especially if it is followed up with the line, "Hi, you look incredible, I'd quite like to perform your autopsy when you die"

But seriously,

I was in a supermarket where I don't usually game, but I saw this stunner.

It was just after work and I was in my motorcycling leathers so all stiff, unfortunately this attire makes me most self conscious.

(It's hard not to stand out being 6'1 dressed in what is essentially body armour).

I did not approach, this was compounded by the fact that I saw nappies in her shopping basket, so I figured she was in quite a deep relationship with a man, but she could have been a single parent.

But the point was not whether she was single, married or had a boyfriend, the point is to approach an find out instead of just assuming.

So by not approaching I failed my task.

But my motorcycle attire makes me feel quite uncomfortable and conspicuous.

Also my standard line of "You look incredible, I'd like to get to know you more" might be a bit full on for a closed situation such as a supermarket.

I need something more casual and less pressurising I think.

I dunno.

I need to just get more confident and, for lack of a better word, "brazen" about my work.

I don't like those awkward reactions. Those are my worst fear.

08/7/18

An interesting day.

I approached two women, one stunner. With the stunner, a duo of likely looking lads spotted her as she walked past, I overheard one of them say "Oh yeah" or something to that effect.

That spurred me to approach. She had a great figure from behind, didn't see her face until I got in front of her but she had a face to match.

The approach itself was weak, I was on my bicycle so it was hard to get her to come to a complete stop, so she didn't.

I had to awkwardly twist around to keep talking to her, so all I managed was "Can I just say" then jestered to her figure and said "wow".

She embarrassedly said "thanks" but walked on.

The second one was walking along and I got her to stop, murmured a couple of lines but then she hooked and it was when she hooked I ran out of stuff to say and cut it short.

I think I might have stumbled up on someone who was single but when the moment counted I messed it up! I've had a few like that where after they hooked I didn't want to make them uncomfortable through awkward silences so I went out of consideration, but I should learn to stay in the set and embrace the moment.

A third possible approach that I did not do was 6 chicks sat outside a bar/restaurant enjoying the sunshine and cocktails.

I hung around for 20 minutes and nearly approached the group on a couple of occasions (I got that adrenaline rush feeling that you get when you commit) but couldn't quite do it.

The outdoor tables had a few groups of other people sat relaxedly at them, and by that I mean there wasn't a background of conversation to cover any awkward moments/harsh rejections.

Eventually some likely looking lads turned up and approached them. I don't know whether they might have known them or not, but they started talking to them, went away and then came back again.

I did think of waiting for the group of chicks to leave but I figured they might have already noticed me hanging gingerly around for the past 20 minutes so I thought that would be awkward if I approached them and they'd already noticed me milling around there.

Even though I didn't approach I felt like I almost did. I really almost did.

All six were quite good looking so my plan would have been to go for the lighthearted approach and say "Hi chicks" in an over the top manner and tell them all that I loved them.

I've not approached a table full of chicks except when I went to the uni in the dining hall, but that was a noisier environment so I didn't feel such a spotlight effect.

I felt like I almost did approach that table, but having all six of them looking at me and the people at the other outside tables kinda gave me stage fright.

Something to consider for next time.

If I can just go up and say Hi and let them lead the conversation or if it falls flat then so be it, at least I expressed an interest.

Been working half of Saturday recently so haven't had a Saturday session to set me up for Sunday which doesn't help.

But I'm happy with how it's going, gonna do a taster session with my coach in London soon which will be my first formal cold approach training.

11/7/18

Approached a chick today in my biker gear, which I consider to make it extra hard.

Didn't make a "serious" approach, but made a "funny" one.

She seemed to be a young supervisor, no older than 22 I'd say.

She was talking with a collegue about pricing meat and I went up and got her attention, she thought I was gonna ask where something was but I decided to cut straight to the point

So "hesitated a bit and then blurted out "I love you". Her reaction was funny, she said "Awww, thanks" then just got back to the pricing meat conversation she was having with her colleague.

I was giggling to myself as I walked out, such was the hilarity of the whole situation.

So although not a serious approach, still quite an "out there" one and a nice awkward situation created.

I stayed in set for about 30 seconds whilst they talked about the meat pricing and then said "nice to meet you" to which I received a reply then went.

I had to pat myself on the back for making an out of state approach.

Then I saw this hot chick in Aldi but the sales assistant whom I've talked to before could see me so I didn't approach the Aldi one. Turns out she was foreign anyway so might have not understood my words.

Also had a quick conversation with some young girls in the chip shop about the football, but that was just a practice and they were quite rough looking anyway.

So all in all, a good effort for a work evening

15/7/18

Sunday, 7 approaches.

Chick 1

First one was a chick I actually went to approach before, but she was crying so instead I asked her directions.

This time I saw her sitting, went to approach her and didn't realise until I got nearer that it was the chick that was crying from last time.

This time I went through with the compliment, so I think she knew from last time what I was gonna do. Anyway, after a little while, her boyfriend showed up (I think last time she had an argument with him that's why she was crying) and she introduced me to him and he was cool with it, which was a first.

So that was a good one, maintaining calmness when it got a bit awkward as another guy appeared. The boyfriend was cool about it, I said "I was just complimenting your lady" when he came over and he took it well.

So then with them both sat down I wished them a good day and carried on with my approaching.

Chick 2

I then went to a Tesco Express where I saw two unrelated hot chicks in one go.

The first one, I hesitated as I locked my bicycle up, then ran down the road after her.

I got in front and I was like "Wait up a minute" and she was like "no I'm fine thanks". And that was the end of that one, perhaps she had anxiety.

Chick 3

And then a worse rejection yet, there was this other one, which gave me strong IOI's, looking at me as I was leaned against the storefront chilling, but then when I approached her and got in front of her she acted really standoffish, like she was expecting me to attack her

So I was in front of her and she backed away and then went to one side a bit and then the other.

Very strange, she was even more anxious than the other one.

So instead of carrying on with the compliment and asked her directions instead and got out of there sharpish.

Chick 4

After the two bad rejections in a row, I decided I would go to a different place in the town, whereby I would find some more targets.

I spotted one and stopped her in front of a coffee shop with various people sat at the tables (it was about 1200 in the day). She stopped which showed good compliance but then when I said "Wow" and gestured to her figure she was like "No thanks" and shot off straight away.

So that was three harsh rejections in a row.

I still get that shaky leg feeling after rejections which I don't like. It makes me feel like I've been assaulted so it's understandable why I don't like it.

And a chick stopping nicely and saying "I have a boyfriend" isn't what I am talking about. It's the ones that act like you are a rapist that make me feel bad.

Anyway

Chick 5

Probably the most attractive and youngest of the day, a chick dressed in tight sports gear, I was like "wait up" she stopped, I lifted my sunglasses and then said "I must get to know you more".

Then she said "I've got a boyfriend though, sorry" and I said to that "I didn't know" whilst maintaining calmness throughout.

Then she recognised someone else in town (a young male of about 17-18) and he came over just as she was saying she had a boyfriend and he was like "I'm not him" almost apologetically, so therefore becoming a temporary wing man in a way.

But that was like three nasty rejections in a row until getting a nice stop if nothing else. I could tell the chick was into it.

Chick 6

Then I continued down the road, saw two chicks walking and then said "I love you" to the hot one, she didn't stop but sarcastically said "thanks"

I am sure I did 7 but there is one I can't remember.

Anyway, I pushed through this one, was working half of Saturday so couldn't build up the momentum so to approach 7 on the Sunday was good.

And it isn't exactly a target rich environment where I am gaming either. That string of rejections after the first one made me wonder if I'd put on some chick repellent instead of sun cream!

22/7/18

First cold approach session since having sex with a prostitute on the Saturday and having a quick masturbation and ejaculation session on the Sunday.

Did I notice a difference in anxiety? Did I hell, I knew it was all bollocks but just wanted to see for myself. If anything I felt more relaxed and jovial when approaching after having had sex and a wank.

Anyway, five approaches, two of them milestone approaches.

First was in Primark, a solid, confident approach, she had a boyfriend but appreciated the gesture.





Second was in town, I paid the compliment and she said "Thanks!" but kept on walking. Didn't yad stop due to the last one I tried having the opposite effect.





Third (and this one was the first milestone one) was a mixed set, two chicks with a guy sat outside a highstreet pub.

I went over to the table and addressed him directly, and jokingly said "I love your girlfriends" and then gestured to each of them and said "wow".

This was all the while with other people sat at tables nearby witnessing the whole event

He wasn't offering anything and although remaining civil, I could tell from his body language that he wasn't amused so I calmly said "nice to meet you anyway" and wished him a nice day before sauntering off down the high street.

What I couldn't figure out was how to involve the ladies in the conversation. I mean, I felt it best to address the elephant in the room head on with the guy, but once I had done that I wasn't sure how to get talking to the ladies.

Anyway I only did that because I knew they weren't both his girlfriends, so it was a way of finding out whether they were or not. But the conversation didn't go that way and I didn't want to make him angry so I took control and ended the set on my terms.





Fourth approach was me running after a chick, telling her to wait up (she didn't quite hear me correctly) but then when I complimented her as she was walking away she turned back with a smile to see me standing there (I try to make a rule of not following, as it appears needy). So that was okay, appreciated at least.





Fifth approach was a two set, I was unsure of age but I heard someone talking about "something rather something rather 21st birthday", so I figured they were around 21.

This was the second milestone in that I REapproached them.

I did not yad stop them due to my bad experience last week where the chick acted like I was gonna assault her.

Instead I opened them from the side. They did not stop the first time, so I gave them some space and then re approached again.

This was in front of a busy coffee shop and mall security by the way

The second time I reapproached I could see at least one of them smiling and blushing.

I quickly said something along the lines of "I love you both, I'd like to get to know you"

But they still didn't stop.

So I jokingly said "nice to meet you" and then closed with a "Bye!" which they replied to as well.

So although I couldn't get them to stop, I still approached and then reapproached in front of everyone. And I could tell they appreciated the reapproach as well.





So that's 5 approaches which counts towards another tick in the box and now I have far exceeded my initial goal of 50 approaches and I'm probably on more like 100 since I stopped counting individual approaches and only count successes now.

I'm starting to feel addicted to the thrill and validation once I get into state although I need to be able to approach when I'm out of state.





I'm sure I felt a lot less nervous since having sex and allowing myself to masturbate again, but when I am tired I still get inside my head too much.

Hopefully I can keep this momentum going as I don't ever want to go back to being shy of women. I just want to live in the moment and express myself instead of being in the shadows. I want these fun little interactions even if I don't get laid from it.




From what I noticed today, none of my targets felt uncomfortable or "weirded out". I put that down to being more relaxed and as a side effect being able to approach in a more natural/light hearted manner. And also having had sex the day before and a wank in the morning. And also dropping that god awful "yad stop" where you get right in front of them which seems a recipe for disaster in this day and age.



So yeah, once I get to approach on Saturdays again I'll be back approaching at full capacity

24/7/18

Saw three hot chicks today, was taking train to work instead of motorcycle due to unforeseen circumstances.

First one first thing in the morning after leaving train station, didn't approach, too inside my head, watched her walking off into the distance. Felt gut wrenching.

There was no one else about either.

Second one on my way back from work to the train station, wasn't sure how old as after school time but she wasn't wearing a uniform and was tall. There was also a man walking behind her whom I initially thought might have been her boyfriend but when I got closer I could see he was in his 40s so he wasn't.

By that time I was too up in my head about the whole thing anyway =/

Watched her again walk off into the distance with guy following close behind her.

Third one was in Sainsbury's back in my local town, thought she was cute, went to open but words didn't come out due to not feeling up to going direct, so we just ended up exchanging glances.

Then went back to reapproach but pretended to think she worked there as an opener and asked her where something was.

She was not impressed and said she didn't know.

Reapproached and told her I'd found the something.

Okay I didn't make it clear I fancied her but at least I spoke to her. She was the cutest I've seen all day, petite little tanned brunette thing. Early 30s maybe?

Just perfect, but I wasn't up to it, it's only Tuesday for crying out loud!



Next opportunity I get this week I'll be going in for the kill.

28/7/18

Saturday, 7 approaches

3 BRUTAL rejections

I think I must have picked up the "chick repellent" instead of sun cream again

Approach 1

Saw a lovely brunette with platted hair. Approached once with "I'm approaching you because I find you pretty", which was promptly ignored.

Decided to reapproach, BRUTAL rejection of "Can you just leave me alone please".

After which I made a SHARPISH exit.

Approach 2

Two set, went up to both, said "I love you and I love you" gesturing to each of them.

Heard them sarcastically say "Thank you" and then something else about seeing me doing it around town the other day and about it being "not cool".

This reaction crushed me so I got out of there as soon as possible and didn't bother to re approach or anything.



Approach 3

Saw two chicks walking, I liked the look of both, approached from the side of one saying "I'd like to get to know you".

To which she replied "No thanks" and that she was already engaged and she'd "never heard that from a random person before".

Again, I was crushed by this reaction and slowly walked off in the other direction to sniggers from passer's by.

Approach 4

Saw a foreign chick in the supermarket, said she was pretty and that I'd "like to get to know her more". She backed away at first, but then smiled and said "thank you"

But she didn't give me anything to work with to take it further and my state was in tatters after two BRUTAL rejections.

Approach 5

Weakly approached a chick with shopping bags, she literally ignored me and carried on walking. I did not reapproach, anticipating a bad reaction if I did.

Approach 6

Tesco Express approach, not many people about so felt confident, saw a chick walk in that I fancied, went straight in to her, no hovering about like I sometimes do, went in, opened with "I'd LOVE to get to know you". She said she was taken but thanked me for the compliment.

Approach 7

Best approach of the day and one of the best of my approaching career!

I think I was helped by there being no one else in the immediate vicinity when I stopped her.

I said she was pretty which she took well and said I'd love to get to know her , to which she replied "in what way".

So I committed and said "on a man to woman level" to which she responded positively.

Then she dropped the bombshell:

She was only 18!

We still had a chat and it went well.

This here is a PRIME example of what I mean when I say I WISH I was 18 again.

I really, really, REALLY wish I was 18 or even 21 or there abouts again.

But a nearly 11 year age gap isn't going to work with my baggage (or lack thereof). And the mentally dark times I've been through in my early 20s, an 18 year old doesn't need to know a person like that.

So we chatted for awhile and went out seperate ways.

Which I am not sad about.

The only thing I am sad about is my age and that's the one thing I can't change. It's a confidence boost if nothing else but I wish this was 2008 and not 2018

So yeah, glad I pushed through the brutal rejections and finished on a good note, but it was bittersweet at the end with the 18 year old girl because it just felt so weird.

I've been conscious 10 more years than her, 10 more years of memories, 10 more years of being an adult.

It's just such a mindfuck.

29/7/18

Sunday, no approaches.

Still went for a walk around town, saw a couple of maybes, but didn't approach due to apathy. As I said they were "maybes".

There weren't many people around due to wind and rain anyway.

I had a look in some supermarkets, nothing about really.

But I must keep the momentum going. I really need to work on my "spur of the moment" approaches.

These are where I will meet most women day to day, mainly in the supermarket.

But it is also when I am "out of state".

30/7/18

Anyway I did a couple today.

One young girl at the train station who worked at a bar until midnight (so at least I knew she was legal).

I hesitated around a fair bit until I finally approached her. I walked near her, then back away, then pretended to look at the information display, before finally approaching.

The conversation was so one sided it was beyond belief, but for some reason I kept it going until she got a phone call which I think she was relieved to get.

I opened indirect asking her which train she was getting, didn't even give her a compliment because the conversation wasn't going anywhere.

I was asking all the questions and she just wasn't interested at all, I should have made a move to get outta that one.

Then the train came and she got on.


Approach 2

An older Polish lady actually on the train (quite ballsy for me but it was quite a quiet train for a change)

This one felt much more natural, I asked her which way she was going, talked about what we each did for work, exchanged names etc, kept it going until she got off at her stop and it felt quite good and natural.

I did say Polish ladies were the prettiest, so quite a weak general compliment there, but expressed interest none the less.

This just felt like a normal and natural conversation, much better than the young girl at the train station.

Approach 3 (aborted)

Saw a younger chick in Sainsbury's when I got back to my local town, first saw her talking to one of her colleagues (she was off duty but worked there)

I did a couple walk bys but from her face she looked 16, although her body which a nice figure, so I didn't approach her.

From the brief glimpses I got of her face she looked really young, I couldn't really tell, so I didn't approach.

Maybe I should have just approached, but say what? How can I go low pressure, but direct?

Anyway, I'm really not sure whether or not I should have approached her, from behind she looked early-mid 20s, but from her face she looked young, this seems to be my biggest anxiety is age related.

It feels kinda awkward if I've just complimented a 16 or 17 year old girl on her figure, ya know?

 

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Jesus fuck this is retarded. In case you haven't got it yet:
1. "Confidence" or "passing shit tests" doesn't do jack shit.
2. It's all about face, frame and height
3. Fuck Pick-Up "Art"istry.
4.Approaching as a sub-6 is useless.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

1/8/18

Anyway, after boxing, on my cycle ride back and high on adrenaline from an insane workout, I made three approaches as dusk was falling.

Well, 2 and 1/2 maybe. Bear in mind this was as dusk was falling so I was a bit hesitant to approach in case they assumed I was a rapist.

Approach 1


Indirect asking for directions

Liked a chick's figure, got closer, grill was rough, age was older than I'd normally go for (mid 30s).

I am mentioning this one because she stopped DEAD to talk to me and I was making a point of looking into her eyes.

There was definitely some sexual tension in this one despite the boring subject matter, her face was a semi smirk throughout the interaction.

I bet she was beginning to moisten around her groin area. I wouldn't have minded to go back to her flat (it was in the rough part of town) and give her a good seeing to.

But after the brief conversation about directions I bailed because of her grill which was mostly crooked and yellow. Maybe I should have stayed in this one a bit longer and played with the prey to see how long I could keep it there.

I notice the ones that wanted me to stay normally say "byeeeeeee" after me.

Approach 2

Now this one is a PRIME example of why you should approach even if you are unsure of age.

I was pedaling up hill, saw this nice chick. Wasn't sure about her age at first.

I parked my bike next to a lamp post and ran back down the hill after her.

I opened with "I'd just like to compliment you on your figure...but I'm not sure how old you are"

To which she replied "I'm 21", which actually made me a bit more nervous because that is prime age and then I knew the game was on.

She was quite receptive and went on to ask me what I was doing and I don't think I even answered, such was my lack of state just after being surrounded by a couple dozen sweaty men.

It was such a bad approach, she was twisting her neck around to talk to me, before that I was standing in the road to give her some space but then cars came.

She said she was going to meet with some friends.

Then I was like "Oh, is that down in such and such" and she was like "Nah, just around their house"

Then I kinda froze on the spot and people where coming towards me so I closed with "Right I'd better let you go before this gets too weird".

She thanked me for letting her go and then I walked back to my bicycle somewhat confused.

I probably shoulda gone for the number but I wasn't really expecting to approach and I wasn't expecting her to be receptive.

But my learning experience from that was that I thought this woman might have been 16 when it turns out she was actually 21.

And I've had vice versa, approached a 16 year old who I thought to be early 20s, not once but twice and the second time she told me off.

Approach 3

Saw a chick walking, instructed her to "Wait!" she looked but didn't stop, so I told her anyway that "May I just say, you look splendid." To which she said "Thanks" and carried on walking.

She was probably married, late 20s I'd say.

Didn't re approach due to time of night.

Possible approach 4

A group of 4 chicks at a traffic light, it went red as I was cycling up to it so I stopped and they laughed and said "Thank you".

I laughed back but I didn't know how to approach them before they went into a restaurant.

I just feel like I'd have been ripped apart like a rag doll, they were early 30s I'd guess, quite elegant looking.

I wasn't really sure how to address the whole group.

Plus one of them was fat so I couldn't do my usual "I'd like to get to know you all better".

Possible approach 5

Early 20s nice blonde tanned curvy chick in Aldi.

There was an older couple with a trolley near her which I initially thought to be her mum and dad, but turns out they weren't.

I didn't even open her direct or in direct, I shoulda said something but after a minute she walked off to the checkout to buy her stuff and I couldn't approach her when she was in a line of people all in ear shot!

So I let that one slip.

Aldi is a really close quarters situation and I just can't bring myself to approach in that place.

But one thing I did notice was how many chicks were out on a warm summer's evening!

I'm kicking myself for letting a couple sets slip, I coulda had 5 approaches in a single Wednesday evening.

I tend to rest on my laurels after a few approaches, especially if they have been good ones as I don't want to overshadow them with bad experiences.

Roll on Saturday when I can go out and hit the streets for some focused approaching!

 

[TheRealChincel]

You’re an old man, OP, your success rate will be -15% whereas for a collegecel it’s 0%. Never interacted with a female, how’d that happen?

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

02/8/18

Approach 1

I saw a hot chick in Sainsbury's again, she was pushing a trolley. Initially I thought she was 16, but why would a 16 year old child be pushing a trolley if they didn't have a car?

I went to approach her and as we locked eyes I just couldn't say anything because she looked too young!

So instead we had a brief moment of sexual eye contact but I didn't say anything at all. At which point I decided to leave the store as soon as possible due to feeling extremely uncomfortable with what I had just done.

Now I think about it she was probably legal and went back to load her car up with shopping after that weird encounter.

So I missed out on a stunner because I thought she might have been underaged, despite pushing her own trolley

Approach 2

Older chick, early 30s. Went up to her, she responded positively but didn't stop, so I gestured to her and said "Wow".

After which she increased the pace of her walking and ignored me.

Not sure why someone would take a compliment badly as I was GIVING value, not taking value.







So a dark day but I wish I'd gone through with the first chick in Sainsbury's but when I looked at her face I thought for a split second that she was 16 or even 15!

She was probably 18 and that is my preferred age but I can't keep passing them up at this rate, if some under 18's get caught up in my approaches then so be it!

I just don't want any repercussions from bystanders, that's my main fear. I know people like to jump to the "pedo" conclusion these days and take vigilante action.

Next time if I see a girl who's age I'm not sure of I should just do a non committal "Hi".

But in the moment it feels so wrong to even approach when they could be as young as 15 or 16 and I feel like everyone's watching me and waiting to pounce on me and kill me.

03/8/18

I approached a two set today, only after missing my stop and then getting off at the next stop!

I was waiting for my train back and then spotted a pair of likely looking ladies on the opposite platform.


To begin with I wasn't sure how old the girls were but I'd say late teens/early 20s. There was a blonde and a brunette, the blonde significantly prettier but the brunette more talkative and bubbly.

They were sat down so a trickier approach, plus there was another guy within earshot, but I pushed myself.


So I did, I stood right in front of them, waited for them to finish talking and then went DIRECT opening with "I've approached you two because I find you PRETTY".

When I said this, the other guy took note, I saw him look in my direction and felt he was observing me commit a sex offence.

So they looked at each other and giggled a bit, but were pleasantly receptive once I started talking.

I was only in set for about a minute, but it was pretty smooth.

They were bantering with each other in front of me which was a good sign that they were comfortable.

The interaction made me really happy.

I fancied the blonde more but the brunette one was doing more of the talking and seemed more into me, I didn't really know how to steer it back to the blonde.

In a two set situation unless one is really ugly I normally just compliment both of them so as not to pressurise one too much.

But the blonde one was the one that made me approach in the first place.

It was such a good interaction, but it was all due to them being receptive. If they weren't receptive it would have embarrassed me. But once I got the ball rolling, I really feel like I was able to take control of the interaction, as a man should.

I'm doing a course in London on Sunday with my coach so this'll give me a nice little boost.

04/8/18

Went out today but later.

About 1530.

The crowds had dispersed and there weren't many chicks so didn't make any street approaches but saw a hot chick in the supermarket just before heading home.

Approached her and opened with ''I'm approaching you because I've found you pretty'' to which she smiled and said thanks but couldn't get her to stop and chat.

She ended the interaction herself with ''Hope you have a nice day''.

Gonna have a big report tomorrow after a taster session with my coach!

05/8/18

Today, I met up with my day gaming coach in London.

The experience was one hell of an eye opener.

I'm sure chicks are more approachable in London, but the first approach I did I was actually offered her number and to begin with didn't realise what was going on so sort of turned it down on autopilot.

Then my coach encouraged me to reapproach and get the number which I did and she provided willingly.

A hot half Indian chick I think? With an American accent.

I wasn't massively into her but did have the thought of texting her before catching the train home and going around to her place for sex, but I wasn't into her enough to want to get to know her and I didn't know how to frame it in the sense of ''Look, I want to have fun with you but don't want to get to know you''.

So maybe I'll get some advice on that before proceeding. It's actually cheaper to go to London than hire a prostitute for 1/2 an hour!

Then we had another few strong interactions, no more number offers though, but my coach had someone training to be a coach with him and we went after a couple of sets together. We had several conversations lasting 5+ minutes which doesn't usually happen for me.

What's more, it was also surprising the chicks I was getting send after were the ones I'd normally avoid approaching for fear of them being under 18.

There didn't seem to be a lot of teen girls dressed as young women like there are in my local medium sized town.


The main benefit to this was having conversation practice and also seeing a couple of example approaches. What I learnt was, when you fully commit, chicks generally respond positively. When you go in half cocked, that's when you get the weird reactions, as I noticed in a few approaches I tried after the session when I was tired, I got more worried looks than anything.

It was really nice to have the camaraderie as well instead of being out on my own.

It's definitely given me the little boost I needed to continue day gaming on the weekends.

It's weird though, a lot of the time when I approach in my nearby medium sized town, I can do everything right and chicks are still like ''u wot m8'' but in London they are a bit approachable and seem to know ''what's up'' more.

I want to keep day gaming until I relish the thrill rather than feel overcome with anxiety when I see a hot chick. It was definitely that I was able to get the chicks to stop more in London than locally.

The chicks seemed to be less socially anxious than in my town. All in all, there were quite a lot of differences, London in some ways seemed to be "easy mode" with fair less tricky situations.

07/8/18

Tuesday,

One situational approach

I cycled past a couple of chicks trying to get into a house with their keys getting stuck.

One skinny blonde with a curvier brunette, and it was the brunette I was after.

They had their car parked nearby, so I knew they were legal.

I stopped nearby on the path opposite and milled around for a bit deciding on whether to approach or not because I deemed the situation to be too distracting for an approach.

I cycled up the road and bumped into an acquaintance at the bus stop, so we chatted and he suggested that I go and approach after all.

They were still trying to get into the house, so I parked my bicycle and walked up to them.

As I was walking up, they approached me for help with lock, to which I agreed.

I jiggled the key in the lock a bit, moved it back and fourth and it unlocked with ease.

Up on unlocking the door, they were thrilled and thanked me a lot.

I turned to the brunette and said ''But wait, now I have to take you for a coffee

''

Unfortunately this was met with a flat ''no''.

Which was a bit awkward, but they were still very thankful afterwards.

I wanted to cut to the chase on this one, I know I should have asked them a few questions, built comfort, etc, but I didn't want them to disappear with all their luggage into the house before I'd had the opportunity to make my intentions known.

I try to remind myself when it goes awkwardly that these rejections are good and that I need them in order to progress.

I guess I could have drawn them into a conversation but it was a work night, I wanted to get home and I'd already wasted time milling around not approaching, so I just had to get it off my chest.

If I am to ever meet women, it's situations like this that I must make the most o

11/8/18

Well, I did a lot of approaches today, about 7 I believe. In my local day gaming town.

I don't actually remember all of them, which is most odd as I often do, but I will describe the ones that stick with me.

(Remembered) approach 1

A two set of model looking mid 20s. They were actually really nice, I tried running up to them, but failed, they took it well.

I tried running up a second time which they felt was funny. Then they said ''Try one more time'', but I still couldn't get them to stop, which I called out by saying ''You're not stopping'' and then laughed and said they were on important business.

So then I wished them good bye and turned around.

(Remembered) approach 2

Approached a chick, she stopped, complimented her figure, but then she walked on. So I didn't reapproach since I took her going off as a sign of disinterest.

Although she did have a positive reaction, so maybe I could have done that.

(Remembered) approach 3

Straight after approach 2, I then went to a women sat on a bench. This was my best approach of the day, I opened her standing up, so that I could gauge her reaction.

I then asked to sit down to which she agreed and we had a 10 minute chat before her sister turned up to which we chatted for a further 5 minutes.

To begin with she was confused by she quickly calmed down once I sat down.

(Remembered) approach 4

This was an interesting one, I spoke to a young girl waiting near the bus stop, as I was talking to her, her mum showed up.

Her mum was not too impressed, starting by asking ''Who are you'' to then I replied ''I'm chatting your daughter up''. I won't beat around the bush when it comes to my intentions.

She didn't take it well, telling me she already had a boyfriend and then saying that I look ''too old'' for her because her daughter was 18.

She asked my age and I told her I was 29.

She was not impressed by this and warned me off her daughter. As she and her daughter turned away I said loudly afterwards ''nice to meet you''.

What annoys me here is that she thought me at 29 was too old for an 18 year old ADULT.

This is a prime example of why I say I WISH I was 18 again, when the whole age range would have been open to me, without judgement.

So a generally successful day and I was glad about the awkwardness I encountered with the 18 year old girl, I held my frame when the battle axe mother turned up and made them walk away.

I need to think of better openers though. At the moment I'm improvising them and being as awkward as possible because it's hard to get into state.

Another thing, after the high of last weekend, when I am out on my own again, I've noticed that my approaches are Weak as Hell!

I'm not really getting in front properly anymore, I seem to have lost the bottle for it. The spot light effect is worse in my local town than in London and I still feel more so that I am doing something illegal in front of witnesses.

So I must get some more coaching on the approach.

17/8/18

Interesting experience in Sainsbury's

The long and short of it was that I was asked to leave the store for attempting to warm up on a shop assistant.

She was actually really rude, I said Hi, but she blanked me, so I said Hi again and she walked away.

At this point, I was seething with rage, so I decided I would hang around and make it as awkward as possible for her.

I can only imagine that she or other staff have been made aware of my approaching behaviour on previous occasions.

I decided I would make things as awkward as possible for her so I stood around the area.

She scurried back, no doubt after a little "pep talk" from her manager, so I reapproached her out of sheer rage and then she scurried off again to her superiors.

Then I was confronted by the manager and the security guard about my behaviour.

I explained that it was not illegal to make small talk with a woman I found attractive and that I didn't intend to make her uncomfortable.

I was advised not to ask personal questions (I asked for her name) anyone who's been to a supermarket will see that the collegues have name badges anyway.

SO I made my point and left.

But I'm still not done with her, when I see her again, I will say hi again and if she reacts negatively I will put in a complaint about her.

She had no reason to ignore me initially, that is NOT how you treat a customer.

I know no woman is worth getting into trouble for so I will keep my calm and chip away at her psyche every time I see her

22/8/18

Saw a hot chick in Aldi tonight (non staff), pretended to think she was the store assistant as I didn't feel up to going direct after the Sainsbury's incident knocked my confidence.

It was late so asked why she was up so late, then asked if she was local, then wished her goodnight.

I don't think I made it sexual enough, it just seemed too much like small talk to be anything meaningful, no teasing, no push pulling, just an exchange of a few words.

Couldn't seem to get her to invest in me, maybe if I stayed longer in the interaction, but didn't want to creep her out again.

Then I left and she left afterwards, I saw her as I was gearing up to ride off into the night.

A small and largely pointless interaction but it helps build the confidence back up.

25/8/18

Update on Sainsbury's incident.

Sat down with store manager, was told that I had made several other colleagues uncomfortable by commenting on their looks.

I was advised by the store manager to "keep those thoughts in my head" and not always say what I think of a woman's looks.

This goes counter to what going direct is all about.

At some point during an interaction, you have to express interest, or they have no idea why you are talking to them and you're never going to get laid.

Needless to say, that store is not longer a viable warm up ground, as I can't use the staff there was warming up on anymore.

So if you can't even express interest in the most benign and polite way, how the HELL are you supposed to?

02/10/18

Recently (i.e., since going with my coach back in August and doing quite well), but then the Sainsbury's incident happening in September, so had trouble approaching, street stops are currently out of the question (major spotlight effect, feeling like I'm breaking the law, worried about the girl not knowing what I want).

The past month I've been going out to town on a Sat and Sun and just milling around, not really feeling able to approach.


Ironically, I have found my salvation in Supermarkets, despite the Sainsbury's incident.

On Saturday I went indirect direct, but as soon as it started flowing I cut it short, happy with what I had achieved and not going for a close.

Today after work I went direct, but not before 10 minutes milling around another Sainsbury's (not the one the incident occured in) and then going up to her and telling her she looked good.

I had her attention for a few seconds, asked her if she felt embarrassed to which she replied "a bit" so I let her go.

But I walked out of that supermarket feeling a million dollars and glad that I finally went direct.

I want to get back to making street approaches in my local town.

But so far supermarket game is providing a few opportunities, but I am still having approach anxiety even in that easy environment where the girls are already standing still!


I am also approaching a couple at work (work at a power station, a few ladies in the admin offices), but I can take it more slowly and naturally with them, just building up bit by bit instead of having to put them on the spot.

They are probably going to turn out to be in relationships though.

So yeah, not feeling able to put in a lot of work at the minute, I am struggling just to keep it trickling, but I am feeling good that I am pushing myself.

I've just been feeling really weird about going up to a random women I don't even know and starting a conversation based on her looks for some reason feels really weird again like it did when I tried my first few approaches.

Don't know why but something seems to have flipped in my brain and set my thinking back from where I built up to.

07/10/18

Sunday, 6 approaches.

I don't know whether it was something in the air today or what, but I busted out 6 approaches today.

In case you didn't know, I've been struggling recently (and by that I mean, since August) with the spotlight effect, being inside my head and feeling like I am breaking the law.

I can't describe it today, I felt so calm and relaxed, it was as though the whole population of my town had moved out and a new lot had moved in.

I didn't feel any paranoia from the spotlight effect. I felt a sense of calm for some reason. Like no one was watching.

I think there might have been more approach targets out perhaps, but I don't know.

What I do know was that I was just focusing on getting the initial part of the approach right.

I believe I did 4 street approaches and two shop approaches.

All I did was go up to the girl and say the line "excuse me, I must say you look good".

And once I'd said that my work was done.

One even stopped for an awkward chat! A sure sign that she was interested.

So I think I will carry on practicing the basics for now.

There were a couple situations that threw one.

One was a couple of young single mums chatting sat down on a bench with pushchairs that I wouldn't normally approach so didn't, but they were hot.

Another was a couple of ladies outside Asda standing with shopping bags waiting for a lift, but I didn't know which one a fancied or if it was a mother and daughter set or what.

From behind where I was standing 20 metres away, she had a cracking arse, but I couldn't see her face. I didn't know how to conduct reconnaissance without being spotted.

So I didn't approach them and felt like I should have done.

I felt so free after today's session and a sense of elation.

It's a feeling hard to describe, I guess it is a sense of release, of being able to express one's self in the heat of the moment.

So anyway, long story short, I'm back!

Watch out, ladies!

21/10/18

Well, another successful Sunday.

On Saturday, I only managed two compliment approaches. One on a stationary target and one on a moving target, which was better. But there weren't very many single ladies out on Saturday it seems.

My second approach was a lot stronger than my first, but after that I just didn't see many targets at all so relaxed.

On Sunday, I set out to do more of the same, go in, stop the target, compliment in broad daylight in front of everyone and then try to keep things going from there.

I made a total of nine approaches, 5 of which were strong ones, the other 4 were throwaway approaches.

The results of the unsuccessful approaches were one complete blank, one carrying on and saying "yeah, okay" to my compliment of "you look good" and one foreign pair who didn't speak English so didn't understand what I was doing.


I had 5 successful approaches though, I actually met a friend who knew about, but didn't practice, day game.

He acted as my wing and encouraged me to approach. I believe this helped as I wanted to show my approaching skills in action. I stopped a few in the street, including one who was on her way to her boyfriend, she still appreciated the approach despite that and was quite smiley and giggly.

This definitely gave me a well needed day game boost.

I think I have found my daygame style:

The forward gentleman

This is to be very direct and approach opening with a compliment. It's more about the body language of the approach than what you say though. Once I've got their attention then I go with something like "I must say...you look good". And be confident in saying that, almost to the point of reducible. Even if they look like chavs I don't change my approach. It is what it is. Some will like it, some will find it weird. That's fine by me.

Well anyway, I approached a tall but young (she was still at college) girl who for whatever reason was quite receptive.

I offered her for a coffee and she said she wasn't quite sure, so I let her get on her way.

Then I saw her again and re approached her. There was quite a lot of silence between us talking, she didn't have a lot to say for herself and she was shy.

Her face was caked in makeup but she had a banging body and long legs at 5'10 I'd estimate.

The second time I approached she just seemed to stick with me, I moved her to sit down on a bench where we sat for about 20 minutes making intermittent chat.

She was also wearing a kind of braless top which left her nipples exposed from the side, to which I jokingly pointed out "You're nipple's showing by the way

) to which she said "It's okay". So she obviously wasn't at all offended by me noticing that

Then I suggested we go to the bus station where the buses go to her town (she was from the next town along) so we walked together there.

At this point, I didn't know what to do in terms of kino, plus I had my shopping bags with me anyway, so I didn't hold her arm or anything.

Then at the bus station I told her I was gonna make a move but that I'd take her phone number down and text her next weekend asking her about that coffee.

So I saved her number, she saved mine, I touched her on the shoulder and said bye.

I felt like I should have kissed her on the cheek but with other people at the bus stop it would have felt a bit forced and awkward.

Plus she really didn't say much, she just seemed kinda happy to hang around me.

If there was one thing I wanted to do it would have been more kino, because it all felt a bit too platonic.

But yeah, I don't really mind what goes on from here on out, whether she replies or doesn't reply, I'm just happy that I've reached this milestone, but I don't think it will make me more confident unless it happens more frequently.

She was hot and she clearly didn't mind me seeing parts of her anatomy, but I am really clueless as to how to escalate if I see her again.

So next weekend, more approaching.

07/11/18

Not a very eventful few weeks unfortunately.

The number didn't reply back, thinking of giving it another chance but can't really be bothered.

Had a work place incident as well. So far, work has been a kind and safe haven for me to chat to a few females without approaching them.

I saw a new good looking female on Friday and approached her immediately for a coffee, she made her excuses but I thought she wanted me to chase a bit so I struck up a conversation again today and offered her to lunch.

When I offered her to lunch I felt a creepy vibe immediately before doing so but I pushed myself to the limit to achieve the objective. She rejected again but in a more awkward way, that was when I realised she was just trying to be nice the first time round.

She's obviously snaked me and reported me to her manager who has then spoken to my manager (lots of different companies on a power station) and my manager has asked me to stop approaching.

Obviously I have no choice but to stop or get fired if it happens again. My manager was only doing his job, feminism is to blame, not him.

But I feel like I wish I'd used that second approach on one of the other potential targets instead of wasting it on an ungrateful little bitch.

There are a couple more potential targets in that work place but I can't risk approaching again.

What would a pick up artist do in such a frustrating situation? I feel stifled and resentful of women again, just when I was beginning to get out of that

 

[Deleted member 15101]

Excrutiating read, I hope you are really enjoying this
It seems like game of a madman to me

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

I am a complete madman, I will admit.
I am getting to the point where I find the brutal rejections quite funny.
Reading that back makes me laugh actually!

If I can achieve that every time then I will be invincible.
I want to make my 30s what my teens and 20s could have been, through cold approach daygame.
I must perfect the art of, "not give a fuck".

Next time I approach I'll update this thread.
I've been in trouble a total of 5 times now from approaching.


Time 1 was in a clothes store, where a bitch lost her shit for me referring to her as looking nice. Store assistants were called over and I was sent on my way. I also noticed police activity behind me I as rode away on my bike but was able to lane split and get away from them. It might have been because they thought I was speeding or maybe due to the approach, I don't know.

Time 2 was cause I was hanging around outside a building with a high female population to approach. Moved on by security and advised police could be informed.

Time 3 was the Sainsbury's incident that you will find in my field reports. Told a girl I found her "pretty" to which she ignored. I then attempted further interactions and she went away to get security. Was advised to leave.

Time 4 was an approach attempt at work, which I thought went well. I reapproached and then the next thing I knew I was hauled in front of the manager for my "inappropiate" behaviour". Warned not to approach again and moved to a different area.

Time 5 was approaching a member of staff in a clothes shop. She didn't give any signs during the interaction that she wanted me to go. Next time I went in there I was approached by security and instructed to leave and not come back. And that I could also have an APB put out on me and be banned from the whole mall.

So far it seems that shop/mall game is dangerous and street approaching isn't, but seems a lot more forced and the interactions more brief. And dare I say possible consequences more serious as they would go straight to the police as there is no security as such to call.

 

[Michael15651]

Jesus fuck this is retarded. In case you haven't got it yet:
1. "Confidence" or "passing shit tests" doesn't do jack shit.
2. It's all about face, frame and height
3. Fuck Pick-Up "Art"istry.
4.Approaching as a sub-6 is useless.

So the basic introduction to BlackPill 101

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

Motivated by reading through Uninstall's thread, I decided to hit the day game approaching hard this Sunday.

Went out today to my local town and got DESTROYED by the local femoids.

I must have done about 15 "approaches" all together, I put approaches in quotes because sometimes it is hard to get them to stop and I feel like I am just talking at them rather than getting their attention.

Some of my approaches were really weak as well, but these creatures seem to scare very easily so I don't want to approach too strong and cause freak outs. I think the combination of being ugly and quite tall is that they get scared more easily rather than just laugh at you in you're face.

I was blanked quite a lot today, as well as being cut off at "excuse me" or "Hey". Just cut me straight off before I said anything. So some were not even approaches really. But I still went up to them and if I couldn't get them to pay attention at least I tried.

I really feel like being tall AND ugly is a bit of a double whammy. On top of being humiliated for approaching I've got to be made to feel like a potential sex offender by nearly every woman I approach.

The most brutal destruction of my psyche happened from static approaches in shops.

My usual approach is to get their attention by saying "Hey" and then saying "You look good" whilst looking them DEAD in the EYES! I say this with a flat intonation.

I'll write down the memorable ones in no particular order

1. Hungarian, went in, said "You look good..." she said "thanks" I said "where are you from" she said "Hungary". Then she said "can I help you with anything" I looked DEAD IN HER EYES and said "No, you cannot help me with anything". Then she looked uncomfortable in her face and went away from the toothbrush section where she was. I think she might have gone to the shop staff and complained. I didn't hang around to find out.

2. Another shop one, went up to her while she was on her phone INSIDE A SHOP! Yes, being inside a shop isn't entertaining enough for these creatures, they actually have to be on their phones as well!

Delivered the "you look good" and she said "Thanks...but that does make me slightly uncomfortable" to which I replied "Thanks for you're brutal honesty" at which point she look an item from the shelf and went away. I lingered like a foul odour because I knew I had done nothing wrong, then left.

3. Numerous instances of being walked around, blanked, terrified and hateful looks in my direction.

4. It wouldn't be a day game session without accidentally approaching a jailbait. I did this to one on her way to the bus station and it was embarrassing for us both. So hard to tell with these femoids all looking and dressing the exact same.

5. Had a could of "nice" approaches in a supermarket where I actually spammed out three in a row. One girl thanked me for the compliment genuinely (I think) but from her body language I could tell she wanted to leave it at that.

Another one said "thanks but I'm waiting for someone". I left her to it but I wondered if that was meant to scare me? What does waiting for someone have to do with anything.

I had a lot of "approaches" in the street where I didn't even really get to say anything as they just wouldn't even look at me or stop their walking. Not sure they even count.

I don't want to stop them too hard in case there is a missunderstanding. Like a pair I wheeled around to try and stop but they just kept on walking.

I offered them both a coffee with me and they were like "no thanks"

So a lot of my approaches today were just being straight up ignored, blanked, cut off before I could say anything and generally destroyed psychologically.

But with the spirit of Uninstall behind me, I shall keep going until I achieve low inhib, because that is true ascension.

Mwahahahahahaha!!!!!

 

[Valiant Virgin]

Good job OP. I love these threads - always good to see the truth exposed in regards to what happens when we do actually make the effort to "just put ourselves out there" and approach girls. The parts about "lingering like a foul odour" and approaching JBs cracked me up!

Like you, I'm tall, and despite what some here seem to think, it doesn't help...if anything it probably makes them feel more intimidated.

Do you have a specific target # of approaches in mind? Or just do it as and when you feel like it? Either way, I look forward to reading your logs.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

Approachings

3/12/18

Well I went for a job interview in the next town along so figured I would bust out a few approaches afterwards.

Approach 1.

A spotty faced blonde haired foid, possible JB, couldn't tell, 5.5 out of 10. Saw her on the way to the interview when I was riding my bike, turned around and went after her.

Opened with "Hey, You look good" to which she said "Thanks" Then she started walking off so I said "Let me get you're number" to which she said "Actually, I'm into girls" which makes a change from the boyfriend rejection, but probably still made up BS.

Approach 2

After the interview and feeling a bit happier, went to a nearby shopping mall. Saw an older looking femoid 5/10 sitting having a cigarrette, went up with "you look good". To which she replied "thanks" I said "Let's go for a coffee" to which she replied "We don't know each other" then I said "But we can get to know each other" at this point she started looking for excuses saying she was on her break from work and that she had kids and I would be wasting my time. And for some reason she tried to tell me I couldn't take my bicycle in the shopping mall.

Fuck that bitch.

Approach 3

Approached a jailbait in a shop, walked up to her when she was folding clothes and said "Hey" "You look good". Then I suggested we go for a coffee, she declined, then I said "You don't like coffee huh, what about a tea?" to which she declined then I said "final offer, Mcdonalds", which she also declined.

Then I suggested I should get her number so we could set something up another time. At this point she asked me if she could help me with anything, to which I replied bluntly, "No, I'm just here to approach women". To which she said "Well, I'm actually 17, so..." to which I said "Well, it's a bit of an age gap but it could work".

In the middle of which her cucked male colleague pulled her away but didn't confront me as I completely ignored his presence. So I hang around for another couple of minutes looking at shirts.

Then I leave the store casually and get approached myself, by security. The security guard asks if I had been in Lacoste and I answer yes, I have. Then he asked if I had approached a woman there to which I reply, yes, I have. There is nothing wrong with approaching women, that's how society works.

He asked me if I knew her and I said no I didn't. He said I had made her feel uncomfortable and that I shouldn't go around asking women for their phone numbers and other "personal questions" (such as offering them for coffee I guess?). Such an alien concept to approach a woman in 2018 it seems?He said if I did it again I would be asked to leave the whole mall. He asked for my name, address and telephone number which of course I declined to provide.

He asked me not to do it again in any store (about 100 separate stores in this mall) and that my "activities would be monitored". So on that note I left.

That is a new record. One approach, one rejection, one report. Six times I've been reported for approaching women now!

Approach 4

Just as I am leaving on my way out to the parking lot, I see a group of three young foids, about 6/10 to 7/10 in looks.

I approach the whole group, stopping them and offering to take them all out for a coffee. I am dismissed like shit.

That's done.

It has occured to me that most foids I approach find the idea of me approaching them to be completely alien. They assume I want to attack them or need some sort of help. When they realise I am just approaching them the look of terror turns to a look of disgust and loathing.

This Saturday I am going to London with my coach for some day game training.

 

[rabitter]

UK must be brutal for cold approach. I'll advise you to take a $30 RyanAir flight and check out Poland over the weekend. Polish foids are more polite than the English twats.

By the way, you white or ethnic? And what's the race of the women you've approached?

And dare I say possible consequences more serious as they would go straight to the police as there is no security as such to call.

Approaching women isn't illegal. All the cucked London police will do is question you. They can't (and won't) do anything else. Unlike American cops, UK ones are super cucked.

--

Regarding approaching in malls - in most cases mall security notices you because of CCTVs and not 'cause the foid reported you. In fact foids are too lazy to report in most cases.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

Well so far I have heard from security in two separate malls in two towns and apparently the women felt "uncomfortable" and the security knew what kinds of questions I was asking, so I'm pretty sure the foids reported me.

I know police will question me, but we have harassment laws and antisocial behaviour laws which they could find a way to do me with.

 

[nice_try]

Here's the tl;dr:
> I'm uninstall copycat
> riding a bike too lel
> said hi
> she said no
x10

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

Well I started approaching in April brah that was before Uninstall. But I respect Uninstall to the max. Also I've been in trouble 6x from approaching which Uninstall hasn't.

 

[LastGerman]

Time 1 was in a clothes store, where a bitch lost her shit for me referring to her as looking nice. Store assistants were called over and I was sent on my way. I also noticed police activity behind me I as rode away on my bike but was able to lane split and get away from them. It might have been because they thought I was speeding or maybe due to the approach, I don't know.

Time 2 was cause I was hanging around outside a building with a high female population to approach. Moved on by security and advised police could be informed.

Time 3 was the Sainsbury's incident that you will find in my field reports. Told a girl I found her "pretty" to which she ignored. I then attempted further interactions and she went away to get security. Was advised to leave.

Time 4 was an approach attempt at work, which I thought went well. I reapproached and then the next thing I knew I was hauled in front of the manager for my "inappropiate" behaviour". Warned not to approach again and moved to a different area.

Time 5 was approaching a member of staff in a clothes shop. She didn't give any signs during the interaction that she wanted me to go. Next time I went in there I was approached by security and instructed to leave and not come back. And that I could also have an APB put out on me and be banned from the whole mall.

Females can do whatever they want. Cucks will help them. Females are actually rule this world.

 

[uninstall]

JFL @ the cucks that report you.

Here's the tl;dr:
> I'm uninstall copycat
> riding a bike too lel
> said hi
> she said no
x10

he is on a motorcycle, I was on a MTB

 

[LastGerman]

He asked me if I knew her and I said no I didn't. He said I had made her feel uncomfortable and that I shouldn't go around asking women for their phone numbers and other "personal questions" (such as offering them for coffee I guess?). Such an alien concept to approach a woman in 2018 it seems?

Seriously. What can men do? You are actually not entitled to talk to females or in general anymore. Everything today is now uncomfortable (for females). They can go to the police of security and then you are the bad one.

He said if I did it again I would be asked to leave the whole mall.

And you will say: No.

He asked for my name, address and telephone number which of course I declined to provide.

Those questions are a bit personal (his own words).

 

[The Abyss]

UK is a shithole, if you're not good looking you need social circle for foids to not feel uncomfortable or hit them up in a pub both drunk as hell then feeling like shit next day, it's what I have observed. You're not allowed to talk to strangers mate, you don't have the correct loicense.